The weakness or strength of a childhood

I read on a friends blog today an interesting question, she asked if you get weaker by always living a “secure” life, you know happy home, both parents, food on the table, getting nice presents for Christmas. Who will take a crisis better? the person who has always lived a happy and safe life or the person who has had to fight for life. And honestly I think both persons have the same capability to deal with it, because we all have God. Some persons just make it even though they have a terrible childhood, they fight and hold back the tears, because they have learned that they are strong and can make it. And some people make it because they have a happy childhood to fall on, and other people just can’t…. and there is nothing wrong with that. It’s okay to give your problems to God, you don’t have to carry them. He can be the strong base you stand on. He is our strength and we need to learn to go to him let him deal with it, and when we do that I think we can make it trough any crisis despite our background.